12.30.2020

Cheers to 2020!


1 perfect shell given to me by a stranger with Maverick City's "I'll still bless you" on my mind
2 preaching series that changed me: "FU" + Relationship Goals by Mike Todd
3 COVID tests taken between G & I in the last 2 weeks of the year, and it didn't hurt! YES!
4 miracle babies born - AJ, Noah, Josiah & Gio - and so many cuddles.
5 women that impacted my life in a huge way this year: Erin, Mom, Tia Ana, Emma & Jeanny 
6 days of breaking & reckoning, healing, and grace on a sacred week in September
7 months of G working from home #covid + a promotion for me; God went above & beyond! I watched..
8 sunrises that changed me, lifted me up, and gave me hope in a wild year where we celebrated
9 years of marriage! What?! We swam with the sharks (crazy!) & had a private rooftop dinner for two
10 episodes of The Crown watched in our new home of NJ (a God story) after...
11 final months spent in South Beach, which will forever be in our hearts <3
12 laps around the track was G's workout plan, but I usually only lasted 4 in the Miami heat
13 and a half books read meaning my goal of 12 was beat for the first time!*
14 weeks going on sunset walks almost every night, and it was magic
15 x 500 people singing outside that JESUS IS KING in Downtown Miami with Sunday Service!
16 to 26 MILLION people protested for the #blacklifematters movement in America this year - incredible
17 hours of snow perfection, plus every season experienced! Fall, Winter, Spring and Summer
18 days spent with Michi & Joe laughing at all the things while they spent Christmas break in Jersey!    
19 family members that support and love each other through our ups and downs. So so grateful
20 hours of surprises for my 30th bday that blew me away. Thanks to my precious babe - I love you G



//  2020 - I bless you because you broke us, and in the breaking we were healed and made whole  //



* Books read:
  • Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
  • The Girl For The Job by Jess Connolly
  • The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis
  • Invitation to Solitude and Silence by R. Barton
  • A Spirituality of Caregiving Henri Nouwen
  • Making All Things New by Henri Nouwen
  • The Way of The Heart by Henri Nouwen
  • Men, Women and Worthiness by Brene Brown
  • A Thousand Mornings by Mary Oliver
  • The Book of Forgiving by Rev Tutu
  • The Little Book of Hygge by Meik Wiking
  • Making Vision Stick by Andy Stanly
  • Dream Big by Bob Goff
  • Becoming by Michelle Obama -  halfway done but started in February. This just wasn't the book for me to finish this year

12.22.2020

to the season ahead


2020 has been quite the year for all of us! So this Christmas, I wanted our card to encompass hope for what's to come! Because we have Jesus, we have hope. I am so full of gratitude this season! The best is yet to come.


**Thanks to Artifact Uprising for another beautiful card!

12.18.2020

our first snow



For remembering our first snow day in years!
Roselle, NJ



11.26.2020

a merry olives christmas 2020!

Miami, 2019

You guys! CHRISTMAS IS HERE!!!

I know some of you have already started celebrating and your house décor has been up for weeks! I cast no judgment this year - we all need a little more joy in our lives and Christmas time tends to bring us just that! We have joy because we celebrate the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ! And to be honest, I don't know how we would have got through the hardships this year would bring without His real and tangible presence in our lives. Also, lighting up the tree, baking all the sweets, singing and dancing to Christmas tunes, getting together with family and gift giving and receiving also make this time of year full of fun and cheer! See what I did there? lol

Speaking of happy things, on this beautiful and quieter than usual thanksgiving evening, I wanted to share for the very first time, released earlier than ever before, our annual Christmas playlist! Woo!!! This year I went all out, adding bits and pieces of our favorite things into this playlist, and there are a few things to notice that make it even more special! For one, this is our longest song list in 7 years! We have 30 songs in total, honoring a very big 30th birthday coming up for me in a few weeks! Also, this playlist is dominated by female voices, from Tori Kelly to Whitney Houston and Dolly Parton too. It wasn't even intentional at first, but I noticed I was adding more and more female artists and decided to keep going as a celebrating of how far women in this country have come this year. Our first female vice president in 2020! YASSS

Another fun detail comes from Jonathan Groff and Leslie Odom being on the list because last month we FINALLY watched Hamilton on Disney plus and loved it so much! Thanks Julie, Dre & Ellie! I brought back some classic voices and songs I've chosen from previous years that I love so much like Hillsong Worships "Peace Upon The Earth" and added Gungor who is on most playlists I've made, and Bing Crosby too! There's an homage to Home Alone and somehow, I found a Christmas song from Barlow girl, who only a few girls from when I was 10 years old would appreciate! Jess, Angie, Fabz and Michelle...that one's for you!! It shouldn't come as a surprise that I could never go without some folky sounds, so She & Him and Handsome & Gretyl did just the job. Finally, one of the artists that got me through my lowest of the low season that 2020 handed me, Maverick City, released a Christmas album at midnight! And that was the final addition to our very meaningful and grand Christmas playlist.

I hope you enjoy our Merry Olives Christmas picks this year! Soak it up and play it loud, IT'S CHRISTMAS!




Can't get enough? Listen to our previous Christmas playlists here: 2014 | 2015 | 2016 | 2017 | 2018 | 2019


11.23.2020

portraits in words: "Rio"


Way back when in Rio

It was 2014
My younger newly married self, was terrified to book this trip
There was never enough money

We were just college students
And you know how it is

But G was too excited!
He finally got his green card
just months before
and was ready to explore, his homeland
And show his wife of 3 years
Everything
Everyone
And more

This was one beach
One afternoon, with family
We ate picanah on the sand
brought to us fresh
Of course!
By a joyful, friendly and beautiful middle aged man
Of course!

And we laughed!
We laughed so hard we cried
And we swam
But not too much —
The waves, too strong for us
The ocean, so loud it rung
The people, paragliding off the mountain above us

It was everything and more
And you know how it is

The best most sweet memories of all
Are worth more than all the money this earth can store
And there I was
standing with my husband, of just 3 years
Full of gratitude and love
And in that moment, I learned
That the greatest currency of all
Is Love

It always goes back to Love

“Rio”
Taken on an IPhone (4?)

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I'm excited to start a new series on the blog of some of my poetry! Sometimes it comes by looking at an image, and wanting to tell a story from it, like the one above. But other times it's triggered by an exiting new season or something deeply sad. I process and express my heart in words. So here I am sharing the process with you. Here's to more vulnerability, and learning along the way. You are loved.


This new series will be called, portraits in words



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5.02.2020

life lately: quarantine

Hello friends!

Starting off with complete transparency - I started writing this post over a week ago, and haven't come around to stepping back into it until today because figuring out what I want to do in this quarantine has been a journey for me. Documenting this time, as well as many other seasons in our life is something I love doing but don't always share with the world because some things feel too personal and sacred. This time feels especially fragile and heavy as well as wondrous, challenging, joy filled and eye opening to say the least. Staying open and honest matters to me, so I want these posts to feel that way. Open, honest, full of joy, hope, sadness and fear. I am grateful for much and will share the good. Here's a glimpse into our days in quarantine...

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Recently, G and I decided to do an IG live where we answered a few questions from some of our favorite people. It was so much fun! Too much fun probably because I haven't laughed so much in a pretty long time. Probably since quarantine began, but more about that later. If you were there in real time, let me just go ahead and apologize on G's behalf for wanting to leave the convo before answering all the questions while asking for people to ask more questions. LOL! I'm still laughing at the thought of the whole thing and it was so good to interact with everyone who joined. I think we'll definitely do it again!

On the live, we had some interest in blog posts so I voiced the idea of doing a photo a day post since quarantine began for us. This week starts week 5, and boy has it been a journey of emotions, perspective checks, anxiety, fear, disbelief, sadness and a whole lot more. One thing is for sure, in all the unknown and frustration with how the situation is being handled politically - we have hope. Our hope in all this really is in Jesus because He is good and promises to be with us always. This time to slow down (for most of us) gives us the opportunity to settle, hear his voice and feel his presence with us at all times. Not just at church but in our homes, and more importantly, within us.

I'll be honest and I say I haven't been as intentional with reading the bible and having a devotional since this change of pace started. It really hit me this past week that this is our new normal for a while, so we might as well take advantage of it in any way we can and use our time wisely by doing things that fill our souls. That looks different for everyone, and my hope is that if you haven't been thinking of this lately, that you do and answer some questions like: what do I want to take out of this time? what steps can I take to be intentional with the things I want to do or accomplish? Who do I want to be right now? How can I purposely rest? How will I take care of my body, mind and soul? What habits do I need to stop and which can I start to be closer to the person I want to be? Who can I bless today?

If any of these questions resonate with you, I hope you'll answer them truthfully, but also give yourself grace in this season.

I've been photographing moments of our day since things started shutting down in Miami Beach. So, here is a photo (or photos) a day in quarantine. If there's anything we can do to help you, you know where to find us! IG: tiffanyolives


2020 - you came for us, but God is with us


SAT, MARCH 14TH 
I took this weekend off to celebrate G's bday, but things changed when we started getting notified of the dangers of Covid in the US. The city was still operating as usual, but stores and restaurants were beginning to close. We headed to the beach for some relaxation not knowing the next few weeks would bring. 

I remember feeling calm that evening and wanting to be outside as much as possible, so I made a cup of coffee and watched the sunset from our front porch. A few hours later, I got the news. All stores company-wide would be shutting down until March 28th due to the virus.

SUN, MARCH 15TH
We woke up determined to celebrate G the best way we knew how in this situation, off again to the beach. We stayed a safe distance away from people, but the beach was full. Spring Breakers were still in town without a care in the world, and covid talk was buzzing. 

I remember walking down Lincoln Rd. while heading to the beach and thinking how shocking it was to see empty tables on a Sunday at most restaurants.
distancing, before it became a rule
this was also the first Sunday Vous did church online as a precaution, before the State made it mandatory to do so. So thankful for their leadership on this

MON, MARCH 16TH
After a Trader Joes run in the morning, I walked around our neighborhood and down to my favorite coffee shop, XO, to say hi to the girls and get a sense of what was going on. All restaurants were closed, tables and chairs put away. I went by work to see the sign at the door and sat outside for a while listening to Brene Brown and processing what was happening...

^ This was the last day the patio set was out - very few people around already ^

TUES, MARCH 17TH
Started to feel a little stir crazy, already!! Did a lot of reading and time outside on the porch. Our evening walk by the water felt special, and empty shelves at TJ and parking lots and on our street, surreal. Watching Coldplays #togetherathome was special too...


WED, MARCH 18TH
I remember waking up feeling good and wanting to venture to our usual spots, so I picked up some Rosetta for brunch, not knowing it would close the very next day. This day was full of lasts. It was also the last day the beach would be open until further notice. We had no idea, but I am so thankful we decided to walk all the way down to South Point on the beach (the end of Miami Beach) and back home. It would be our last day doing that for a long time..crazy!
^And that right there is the reason they closed the beach as early as they did (with good reason) ^
^ We saw about 2 dozen people on the boat while this cruise was leaving ^


THURS, MARCH 19TH
This was a sad walk! To see the beaches empty and these signs everywhere was an end of the world type feeling.


The next few photos have no dates. Just different moments from quarantine life, lately...
^ solution to no beach ^




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